There are two forms of truth for every situation we face in life. The logical truth and the spiritual truth. These could also be termed God’s truth and Satan’s truth. This was true during Jesus life on earth. Satan truth was that he was killing the err to the kingdom so the kingdom would be his. God’s truth was that he was purchasing back any man from Satan’s influence any person who would accept it. I Corinthians 10:13 supports this where it says, “No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man.” That is Satan’s truth. But what follows is God’s truth. “But God is faithful who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able…”
We have the choice to either think logically or think spiritually in every situation. Notice that whatever comes our way He allows. If He allows it, He must have a purpose for it. This is true even when the source of the unpleasant situation is sometimes our spouse did or didn’t do.